​COUNSELLING​ ​BRUNSWICK

​Choosing The Best Counsellor Brunswick

​It's easy to feel vulnerable or raw when starting out on counselling sessions.
The relationship between you and your counsellor, is a private one.

Professionals are used to dealing with life's personal details, but you may not be so used to opening up in this way. A strong counselling relationship can significantly change your outlook and perspective on key areas of life - it's important to get it right.

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​Finding The Right Counsellor

A great counselling relationship, with appropriate boundaries, will be based on:​

​- Safety - If we don't have an underlying sense of safety in therapy, from the outset, it's unlikely progress will be made.

- Acceptance - Without the confidence that whatever we say, whatever interpretation we've given of a certain event, will be accepted, it can be hard to reveal much of our feelings, in order to get over them. An experienced talk therapist can "hold the therapeutic space" no matter what trauma or issue arises, and help you navigate it, without feeling judgement or blame.

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​- Partnership - Working together with your counsellor should feel like a partnership. As a client you depend on the therapist to lend insight and perspective on the issue you face. However, if you are not 100% open and honest with the therapist, results achieved may be lacking. If you do not fully reveal the info asked of you, it may take longer to achieve the change you want.

​- Consideration - Let understanding and appreciation flow equally between you and your counsellor, to help achieve a stronger counselling relationship. e.g. Achieving results too quickly can actually be a bad thing!...if it causes too much discomfort. Be willing to change pace to match your counsellor, within reason. Understand that, even through the difficult sessions, the counsellor has a clear path ahead for you, and knows what they are doing. When you've been able to overcome a few small issues after starting out with your counsellor, confidence can grow.

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​- Listening - One of the main counselling tasks is to be a good listener. A wise counsellor is aware, that much more can often be gained by staying silent, and listening closely, not only to what is said, but *how* it is said, in order to better understand a client's position, and be better placed to facilitate greater context (and more comfortable change. Ensure you are willing to listen to the counsellor when they do talk - as they could be attempting to help you give a more forgiving meaning, to a troublesome event, and thus ease your pain. Rather than giving your rote-learned responses to your therapists questions, try to do your own active listening, instead. Interesting results can be achieved by listening intently to the therapist's question, as though it's the first time you'd heard it.

​- Validation - The meanings we give to events, are as varied as human beings themselves. It's important that we feel our meanings are reasonable, given the circumstances. An empathetic therapist hears and understands your issues, but also has the insight to guide you toward an even more helpful perspective.

​- Hopeful - Most of us begin the counselling journey at a place where we do desperately need hope. A lot of folks find themselves at counselling sessions as a lst resort - they've tried everything they can think of, already. How fast you see results from counselling varies from one individual to another - but it's not a sudden series of overnight wins - more like a gradual campaign of change. Take comfort and faith from the smallest of breakthroughs made during a session - and allow it to build your hope of even better breakthroughs, in future sessions. Hope can carry us through even the darkest of times in life, and hope is important both in and out of the counselling room. What experience does your counsellor have with your issue specifically? How have they helped others, like you, in the past? Use these questions to decide if this counsellor's experience matches your expectations.

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​- Trust - The inner child, in all of us, seeks to protect us above all else. If the environment is not supportive of vulnerable issues surfacing, they will not be allowed to do so. Counselling usually involves revealing extremely personal feelings that we feel vulnerable about. The impartiality of a third party therapist, can help us open up to heal previous hurts more fully than working with someone we know. Trust is required that (I) the counsellor can guide the entire counselling journey with you and (ii) they have the skills and competence required to help you resolve each individual hurt, too. The counsellor is not there to be your friend, however. Expect your beliefs, values, and opinions, to be shaken up, and looked at closely - this is where much of the healing potential lies. This can feel uncomfortable at the time, but trust is required, that the gains will be worth it. A professional with more specialism in  your particular area of concern may help here.

​- Perception - The counsellor has the acumen, vision, and understanding to help you identify and remedy, areas where a better perspective on the event(s), may help. Judgements are required, often very quickly mid-session, in respect of which values or opinions need to be challenged to improve overall mental health, as opposed to those which can do not contribute so much to the bigger picture, or are secondary to other more important goals. The difference is priceless, in the emotional peace a client experiences, over time.

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Depression Counselling

​Ironically, depression itself can stop us getting help for depression - making it one of the most debilitating mental health challenges we face.

Counselling can help identify and deal with the underlying issues and thinking patterns - your counsellor should help you recognise contributing issues and maintaining factors.

Depression can also respond well to other modalities and approaches, and your Doctor or medical professional may advise on exercise, dietary, and other changes that may help.

See more about counselling for depression, here.

Ring us direct on 0191 580 3700 to check on availability and pricing of counselling in Brunswick.

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​Anxiety Counselling Brunswick

​The root of anxiety is often based in our learned associations - a repeated experience of negative reinforcement with something specific, can become a more generalised problem later in life, without realising.

In counselling you should be able to identify the roots of where the anxiety has started, and get help to overcome the day to day impact anxiety has in your life.

More specific anxiety such as acute episodes of panic or panic attacks, also have their roots often in the past, perhaps with a one-off specific experience, or association to an event, that we don't consciously realise.

Deconditioning work can be undertaken with a therapist's help, to help untangle the meanings attached to an original event, and thus feel better about it - and less anxious.

The therapist can utilise a variety of techniques to tackle anxiety, including deconditioning, work on associated past events, or desensitisation, depending on specifics.

Your counsellor is best placed to guide you through the best options for you, that will provides the greatest relief over time.

Get the full info on counselling for anxiety here.

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Relationship Counselling

​From time to time we all have difficulties in relationships, whether this is a romantic relationship or not. Differing backgrounds, values, and even age, can all bring conflicting interests into the open, creating situations that are extremely difficult to navigate, without professional assistance.

Marriages or civil partnerships can come under strain from issues like contrasting interests, differing priorities, and disagreements about what's important in life.

Counselling can help couples put aside differences and start learning and listening to each other, in earnest.

Understanding and anticipating what your partner wants and expects from the relationship, needs daily work, and most couples are not clear on this.

Sometimes a therapist can assist this understanding by helping you see how current patterns, relate to the past, and the previous episodes in life that each partner brings to the relationship.

Whilst we would all like to be able to improve our relationships without help, a private counsellor has the training and skills necessary to help you make noticeable improvements in daily life.

We discuss relationship counselling and marriage counselling options in more detail here.

To get started with relationship counselling, ring Truth Counselling Newcastle direct on 0191 580 3700.

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Bereavement Counselling

​Loss in life is usually related to a loved one or friend passing away. However, loss can be more subtle, yet just as profound, when it manifests differently. A sense of deep grief or loss can result from being unable to continue a favourite hobby, losing a pet project you've been working on for a while, or enforced retirement.

Many find it difficult to even begin grieving, and feel stuck in a state of dissociation. Others become caught in a prolonged state of grieving, unable to continue functional life without feeling the deep emotions of loss acutely during everyday life.

Whether for long or short term grief issues, grief counselling can provide essential support that is often unavailable from other sources.

Full info on grief counselling is available here.

To arrange sessions of grief counselling, ring us direct on 0191 580 3700 and we'll get things moving.

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​Anger Counselling Brunswick

​Anger is often the result of one of our most basic beliefs or values being contradicted.

Excessive anger often results from an excess of internal "rules" or beliefs, making it easy for them to be broken, and it therefore becomes easy to trigger a state of anger.

Periodic angry episodes happen to us all, but more frequent or uncontrollable anger is more likely to require intervention and therapeutic help.

Anger counselling aims to help understand the root cause of the anger better, in order to overcome the pattern of angry behaviour and feelings in your life.

It may be that for one individual, both counselling and anger management are suitable for different stages of the individual's journey. They are not necessarily mutually exclusive.

See our main page on anger counselling.

If you're struggling with anger, counselling may help. To book sessions, call direct on 0191 580 3700.

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Trauma/PTSD Counselling

​In reality, most of us are unaware, at a conscious level, of how an event can affect us, emotionally.

When an event happens in the outside world which goes against our understanding of life, it results in trauma, that is unprocessed.

Symptoms like desire to be alone, depression, helplessness or hopelessness, and social isolation can all be signs of unresolved trauma that may need professional help to resolve.

Trauma is usually thought of as one-off, traumatic events, which we typically associate with war veterans, victims of crime, or domestic abuse, for example.

Multiple smaller traumatic episodes can also result in accumulated emotional difficulties over time, and it can be more difficult to label these issues as in need of acute mental health care, when compared to more impactful, one-off traumas from widely recognised sources.

A trauma counsellor can help with both types of trauma. Some have additional qualifications to assist with specialist interventions such as EMDR, or NLP techniques that have been effective with trauma sufferers in the past.

While attending counselling for the first time can be intimidating, your counsellor has done this many times before. Generally, there is nothing you can say that would surprise them or they have not heard before. The counselling room is the one place it's safe to open up and feel heard.

Our main page on trauma counselling has more info.

Questions about trauma counselling? Ring us direct on 0191 580 3700.

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Addiction Counselling

​Addiction to a substance or behaviour, usually happens incrementally, over time, and outside our conscious awareness.

If we go through a period of very high stress, it's natural for us to look for ways to ease the pain.

It's surprisingly easy to continue using this one coping mechanism in this way, and thus end up using it as the *only* coping mechanism, whenever stress arises.

This can be a dangerous time - as too much overuse of one coping mechanism can convince us that the level of stress we're under - is ok.

While most present with an addiction to a substance like alcohol or drugs, an increasing number are developing behavioural addictions which could benefit from counselling, such as collecting or hoarding behaviour, viewing pornography obsessively, or compulsive shopping.

Counselling can help gain understanding on the underlying causal issues behind a pattern of behaviour in life. While long term progress takes time, a counsellor can assist you in short term gains by helping you access the right support at times you feel triggered.

For advice on addiction counselling options, ring us direct on 0191 580 3700.

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​Arranging Counselling For The First Time

​Meeting Your Counsellor

​How often do you expect counselling sessions? What progress do you expect to make? Define fast and slow progress? These expectations can cary widely, so make sure you and your therapist agree on the details, from the outset.

​Charges & Payment

​Private counselling costs can vary wildly, so do check beforehand about specifics. It's common for initial sessions to be a reduced rate, or sometimes, free. Sometimes the first session is allocated a standard rate.

​Agreeing On Progress Goals

​Even before therapy begins, you should make it clear what you want to achieve from counselling, how many sessions you expect, and what exactly constitutes a good result, for you personally. If this is done at the start of the counselling relationship, it leaves the rest of the sessions to deal only with the actual counselling work, and not the practicalities.

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​What To Ask A Counsellor Brunswick

​Choosing the right questions to ask before you begin can help find the right counsellor for you.

​What happens if I don't feel better?

​- Make sure you stay connected with your therapist, and share the same expectations about the practical elements, throughout. As well as keeping things moving, this helps the therapist look after you best.

​​How long should therapy for (your issue) last?

 - As you can imagine, there is no one size fits all solution in therapy - what's too long for you, may be too short for someone else, depending on their issues. The actual number of counselling sessions required will vary as a function of:

​- Elements from the past, that surface during treatment, that require treatment before the primary complaint can be attended to.
- A behavioural pattern you seek to dissolve or resolve, has many more contributing events from the past, than originally expected, and all need to be resolved to dissolve the behavioural pattern
- All of us move at our own speed in therapy, with the time taken to evaluate events, find better alternatives, and have appropriate insights, varying from one person to another. Expecting anything different would not be appropriate.

​Therefore, please do not expect a definitive answer to this question.

The therapist's job is to guide the exploration of painful feelings and move you towards a point of resolution on them. A short time period in which to work together, can mean there is only enough time to open up milder issues. Whereas, a diet of long term therapy gives greater scope to make progress on deeper issues. As you might expect, the more events are opened up, the more they have to be closed down, when treatment completes. It's important to communicate clearly throughout counselling sessions, to make sure misunderstandings don't occur.

​​Do you have research interests, or a specialism in one particular type of counselling?

- Certain types of therapy carry with them, specific types of training or qualifications. Getting answers like these will help you develop a sense of whether you and your counsellor will work well together, before you begin.

​​Can I start right away?

 - Therapists are usually busy people, with little spare time between sessions. Getting logistics sorted out now, will help later.

​Counsellors Available In Brunswick

​Our counsellors are self-employed and independent. We can usually offer counselling sessions at most locations throughout Tyne & Wear, including Brunswick, by arrangement.

​How To Enquire About Counselling

​To get started with counselling, or just for an initial chat, we're available on 0191 580 3700.

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​Our counsellors adhere to the BACP code of ethics and practice.

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